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 Motor Skills Concerns

 

Listed below are a few previous questions from our Ask The Therapist form relating to speech and language.  You may also want to review:

 

My 17th month old was born at 36 weeks gestation. I think he has gross motor delays. His language skills and fine motor skills are excellent but he has never crawled and didn't walk (only cruised) until 16 months of age. He cannot get into a standing position without assistance unless he can pull up and doesn't really bend over to pick up things on the floor if he is walking. He will bend over and pick them up as long as he doesn't have to bend too far. If the object is on the floor and he wants it, he will reach for it and then sit down. I am wondering if he has a true developmental delay due to some organic cause or if it is because his babysitter from the time he was able to sit up let him ride on toys and in a walker. We did do some tummy time when he was small but he had horrible reflux and would spit up excessively if he was on his tummy. He has had x rays of his hip because he doesn't like to even get up on his knees; he just flops back down. I know I shouldn't compare him to other children but it seems like kids his age are running circles around him. I want to get early intervention and/or physical therapy if he needs it but everyone tells me I am just worrying too much. We have no history of late walking or neuromuscular disorders in our family but I worry about muscular dystrophy or other problems.

I would certainly suggest contacting your local early intervention provider for a physical therapy evaluation for your son. It sounds like you have concerns about your son's gross motor development, even if friends and family are telling you that you worry too much. As a Mom you know your son the best, so the easiest way to resolve your concerns would be to have a team evaluate your son and let you know if he indeed is showing a developmental delay in the gross motor area or not. If he is, he can start receiving therapy now, rather than waiting. We, as therapists would rather do an evaluation and say everything is fine then to have families wait until their children are almost three years old and then finally get a referral and wonder why the child was never referred for services earlier.

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Tummy time is an important position in early infancy that has been shown to impact gross motor skill development. You can read a recent article about it on our website. Again, I can't say for sure that lack of tummy time contributed at all to your son's lack of crawling, etc.

Walking at 16 months, although maybe later than some of his peers, is still considered within average. However, since you mention that he cannot yet assume a standing position without support and has trouble squatting down to pick things up, I am wondering if perhaps he has low muscle tone? Children with low muscle tone often achieve motor milestones later than average and in comparison to children with typical muscle tone, may feel "floppy" when carried or held. Low muscle tone can be assessed by a physical therapist or diagnosed by your son's pediatrician. I would also ask your pediatrician to check your son's hips (this is usually done at well baby visits) to rule out any problems.

As therapists we do tell families to use play equipment like walkers, exersaucers & bouncers in moderation, since these devices have been shown to not actually have any benefit in helping children to walk and often instead of developing a child's quadriceps muscles that they need for walking, they develop the calf muscles more and sometimes lead to toe walking. But, having said that, it would be hard to say if spending time in a walker on a ride on toy had any negative impact on your son's development.My recommendation would be to definitely call your local early intervention provider so the team can tell you if your son is demonstrating any developmental delays and if he is, he can begin physical therapy to work on these skills. This is a link I found for services in NC.

 

My daughter is 1 year, 4 months old. She is always bending her neck to the side. When I correct her by lying her on the opposite side, she keeps it straight for 2 weeks and bends it to the side I laid her on. I dont know how to permantly correct this.

If your daughter has been bending her neck to the side since she was an infant, she could possibly have a condition called Torticollis. We cannot accurately say that this is what she has, but here is a link on our web page describing this condition.

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Torticollis should be diagnosed by your doctor and then a pysiotherapist should provide stretching exercises during therapy and can teach you some exercises you can also do at home. It is good that you are trying to position her on the opposite side for sleeping. You can also do things such as, positioning her chair during meals so that she has to turn to her non-preferred side to look at you and interact with you. Do the same if she is watching tv, etc. If you do not have a pysiotherapist in your area, you can review these stretching exercises for home use, but we strongly advise getting the advice of your child's doctor in getting an accurate diagnosis and seeking the guidance of a physiotherapist in performing these stretches to prevent injury.

 

My baby girl is 5 months. She can sit when put on a sitting position, but when you want her to stand up and hold her, she'll use one leg and cry. She hasn't put weight on her legs yet and when you put her on her stomach, she cries but when she is lying, she kicks with her legs and recognizes people and even cries for them. What could be the problem?

Since your baby is only 5 months old, I don't necessarily think that anything you mentioned would definitely indicate a problem, but if you are concerned about her legs please do consult your baby's doctor. Many babies do not begin to bear weight on their feet when held in a standing position until they are between 6-9 months old. It is great that your daughter is able to sit when placed in a sitting position. Since you mentioned that your daughter will only place one leg down when held in a standing position and will cry, you can ask your doctor to check her hips to make sure she has no problems with her hips being out of place. It is good that she will kick both legs when she is lying on her back. One thing I would encourage for your baby is more time on her stomach (we call it "tummy time"), since this is the most important position for her to be in during waking hours in order to strengthen her muscles that she needs for the development of important motor milestones such as rolling, independent sitting, crawling and later walking.

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You can gradually ease her into more time on her stomach, by playing with her as she lies on your chest facing you or getting down on the floor on a blanket with her. Try to build up her ability to play in this position for at least 5-10 minutes, 3-5 times per day. You can read a few of our articles on our website which tell you why tummy time is so important for young babies. And also check what is typical for her motor milestone development. Right now at age 5 months you want to focus more on the tummy time, rolling actively in both directions (stomach to back and back to stomach), as well as reaching for toys when she is on her stomach by being able to hold her chest up, pushing up on extended arms and reaching for a toy with one hand or the other. Here is an excellent source of information on how to encourage tummy time during play, carrying, diapering, etc.

 

My daughter is 13 1/2 months old. She was born full term. She is not bearing any weight on her feet. When we try to make her stand, she bends her knees. She never crawled, never moved. Her mind is sharp, and our family physician says everything with her is fine. I am extremely worried if everything is fine, how come she don't bear weight? Is this normal or should we do anything about this? I can't sleep properly worrying about her.

I would not be concerned if your daughter was not walking yet at age 13 1/2 months, however, the fact that she is not bearing weight on her feet when placed in standing, nor is she crawling or moving about in some way at this age is somewhat concerning. Most babies are able to bear weight on their feet between the ages of 6-9 months and will bounce when their hands are held. I would definitely seek another medical opinion, from perhaps an orthopedist to determine if there is an underlying medical reason as to why she is not yet completing these motor skills and make sure to have her hips checked.

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I would also look into an early intervention evaluation from a physical therapist in your area so that she can start receiving therapy to help her progress in her motor skills. I was unable to locate a specific resource for early intervention/pediatric physical therapy in your area, however, perhaps if you contact someone at this website link they can point you in the right direction for resources available to you in the Toronto area.

 

My daughter is five and her teacher is noticing that my daughter is clumsier then the rest of the kids and she having a hard time holding on to a pencil and stuff like that. I once saw her fall down with no real cause. I'm taking her to the doctor on Friday. My daughter is adopted and we don't have any medical information. We have had her since she was two days old. I'm kind of worried thinking something could be wrong with my daughter's growth. I'm not sure I have a question but what could be wrong, or what could be causing her to be clumsy? She is my only child.

You are doing the right thing by first making an appointment with your daughter's pediatrician to address your concerns. He should be able to rule out any physical or medical reasons related to why she may be falling so much and having difficulty with some fine motor tasks. You may also want to seek an evaluation by a physical therapist and occupational therapist through her school or a local clinic to rule out any developmental or sensory issues as well. There is a diagnosis called Dyspraxia which is a neurological condition that can result in clumsiness. This link details some of the symptoms of Dyspraxia.

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You can ask you doctor about the possibility of this diagnosis on Friday and see if he recommends any specific referrals or testing to help get to the root of her problem.

 

My son will be 5 months old next week on March 1st. I'm not concerned about his social interaction at all. He is a happy, "talkative," and smiling baby. However, there are two things I'm concerned with regarding his motor skills. 1. Reaching for toys. Ethan met the guidelines for batting at toys but just now started to reach for them. When he does reach for them, he kind of just swipes both arms and hands inward towards the middle of his body. He is sometimes successful. Does this count as reaching? Should he have done this earlier? He has been putting his hands together and in his mouth since 3 months of age. When I put a toy in his hand, he will shake it and bring it to his mouth. I just don't know what to look for with reaching and grabbing toys. He doesn't grab the toys on his activity mat or in his exersaucer. 2. How long should he be bearing weight on his legs when placed on them? He'll bear down for a split second and then bend them. He'll then go up and down almost like he's bouncing. Should he be standing for longer periods of time while supported?

From your description of your son it sounds like his fine motor/reaching skills are still within normal limits for a baby who is just about to turn 5 months old. From 3-5 months most babies are still batting at & reaching for toys on hanging gyms, while not necessarily always being able to grasp them with control. Babies from 3-5 months are typically able to grasp toys voluntarily when placed in or near their hand, instead of just reflexively. Babies of this age still tend to reach forward with both hands (bilateral reach) and as they get to about 6 months of age they begin to be able to grasp toys with one hand (unilateral reach) and begin to transfer toys hand to hand.

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Babies from 3-5 months still do a lot of hand to mouth with or without a toy, which is age appropriate. By the time a baby is 6-7 months old they can typically reach with control from a variety of positions (belly, back, sitting, sidelying), but right now your son's reaching may be more difficult in positions where he has less stability or support such as in his exersaucer or when on his belly. He may also still be using his fingers without his thumb to grasp, which is also ok for his age.

As far as standing, most babies by 5 months will briefly bear some weight on their legs and flex and extend their knees and by 6 months will bear weight for longer periods and bounce actively while requiring less support in this position. By the time a baby is 7-9 months they should be able to stand well with support against an object or with both hands held.

You can review our Gross Motor Development & Fine Motor Development sections at these links:

I wrote a few weeks ago about my son who shows no interest in reaching/grabbing for toys or         anything. He is very social, "talkative," full of smiles, and laughs. It almost seems like he is         bored with the toys and wants to connect to the person/people instead. My pediatrician said that everything         looks great and normal but seemed concerned when I brought this issue up. He doesn't reach for         his pacifier, my hair, or anything. She did say that it was very good that he is able to bring his         hands together at his midline and put them in his mouth. She referred us to early intervention         and we are just waiting on them to call and set up an appointment. I am literally going crazy         with anxiety while we wait. My question to you is, what could this mean? Sensory disorder,         developmental delay, autism? I know you can't diagnose him without seeing and interacting with         him, but I want to know if he is meeting every other milestone, what could no interesting in         reaching or grabbing for things mean? What possibilities are we looking at? I'm just trying         to prepare myself instead of drive myself crazy with anxiety.

I am sure it brings anxiety for you waiting for the early intervention team to show up to evaluate         your son, but be assured that this is the best possible thing you can do at this point to allay your         fears and help your son if he indeed needs help in any area of his development. Without knowing your         son, I am still apt to say that he may just need a little more time to develop his reaching skills         since he only just turned 5 months old on March 1. Most young babies still clearly prefer people and         faces over toys and believe it or not that is a good thing. If he did not look at your face and did not         show interest in people, I would be concerned. He may actually begin reaching for your face, hair or jewelry         before he begins reaching for toys. When the team arrives to assess your son, they may have a developmental         specialist or an OT and/or PT look at your son's fine motor/reaching skills. At age 5 months, we are mostly         looking at skills such as bringing his hand together at midline (which he is doing), bringing hands to         mouth (which he is doing) and bringing hands to mouth with a toy, which I think you said he will do if         you place the toy in his hand. I would also look for him to begin transferring a toy from hand to hand         by the 6th month. His hands should also be open most of the time and if they are sometimes fisted, they         should be very loosely fisted and not tight or with the thumb indwelling. Does he put his hands onto         the bottle at all when you feed him? I would not expect him to hold it yet, but ideally he should be         patting the bottle with one or both hands during feedings. Between 3-5 months babies are just         developing tactile awareness in their hands and learning how to use their hands and fingers. The         batting and swiping at toys comes way before the actual directed reach and clear grasp. The only other         thing I would suggest is that if you haven't done so, to have his vision screened since visual deficits         can be one reason a baby will not reach for things. The OT and/or PT on the early intervention team         will also assess his muscle tone and range of motion in his upper and lower extremities to make sure         he is not too loose or too tight which can prevent a child from being able to move in a typical pattern.         The team will only be able to tell you if he is showing a developmental delay in one of the areas of         development (Gross Motor, Fine Motor, Cognitive, Self-Help, Social, Communication), they cannot make a         specific diagnosis, but you can ask them about sensory issues if you are concerned about that.

You may want to try using wrist rattles, the little soft rattle toys that attach to a baby's wrist with         Velcro, this way the toy is on his one wrist and will encourage him to reach for it with his other hand and         he will not drop it. Then switch it to the other wrist and do the same. Also you can massage his hands and         fingers to improve his tactile awareness. If he is not reaching toward toys in his bouncy seat, try rolling         up small receiving blankets or towels and placing them behind his shoulders to bring his shoulders forward         which may help to bring his hand together and make it easier for him to reach toward the toys. You can also         do this on the floor if he is lying under a baby gym. Also, since many rattles these days are heavy, we suggest         using the connector rings that you use to hang toys on baby gyms, since these rings are small and light and the         right size for a baby's hands. Sometimes babies will hold or grasp a single connector ring before they are         able to grasp a heavier, larger rattle. You can also use textured books with your son, opening his palm and         guiding it across the page to feel the various textures or do this on the carpet or a pillow or blanket,         helping him feel different textures. Best of luck with his upcoming evaluation and let us know what the team         says. This link on our page talks a little bit about the process of early intervention and what to expect.

 

My daughter is 6 years old and in kindergarten. She was diagnosed with low muscle tone around 3 years old. She is in Physical Therapy at school for 2 years and her pt instructor said her progress is very slow but there is some progress being made. She asked if my daughter had ever seen a neurologist and she has not. Do you recommend low muscle tone children see a neurologist? My pediatrician said she would refer us if I wanted but really didn't see the need. (My pediatrician has also been very "laid back" about my the low muscle tone and not done any further test regarding it). So I guess my question is do you recommend a visit to a neurologist and what types of test would they do?

I spoke with one of our physical therapists this morning and she told me that is it never a bad idea to see a neurologist for a child with motor problems/low muscle tone. A neurologist specializes in disorders that involve the central nervous system (brain, spinal cord, nerves and muscles) which can include, but are not limited to delayed motor milestones, weakness, cerebral palsy, nerve muscle disorders and coordination. A neurologist may be able to rule out if there is a specific cause to your daughter's low muscle tone and delayed motor milestones.

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We are not sure what specific tests he might recommend for your daughter, but it could possibly be an MRI. Our suggestion would be to speak to your daughter's PT at school and she may be able to give you a better idea of why she recommends it and what tests she thinks the neurologist may perform. Seeing the neurologist can't hurt and it may give you piece of mind in ruling out other concerns. There are many children who have low muscle tone and no specific cause has been found, however other children have low muscle tone due to a specific diagnosis.

 

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My child just had her nine month check-up. My husband and I have been concerned as her gross motor skills are developing slowly. I had preeclampsia during pregnancy and spent the last two months on my side. My doctors kept her in my womb until she had neutral blood flow. At that point, they decided it was time for me to have her via c-section. She was born 6 weeks and one day early. She weighed 3 lbs. 5 oz. Because of her prematurity, we have been monitoring her gross motor development based on what her due date would have been if she was full term. Even given this though, she is developing slowly. She did not require any oxygen when she was born nor were there any complications other than what one might see in a normal preemie. For the last 2 months, she will roll from her back part way onto her stomach (will not remove the arm under her), and she tends to sleep like this. She will not roll over all the way from back to stomach. She will not even really attempt to roll over from stomach to back. It is as if she does not recognize that she can use her arms when she is on her stomach. While she has been able to hold her head steady for a couple of months, she is not making much progress on sitting up without support. If she is leaning against something, she can balance for a few minutes or longer depending, but she does not sit up on her own without support. She mostly just seems very content to lay on her back and play. We have tried to work with her both on her stomach and back but have made little progress. Her doctor did not have many recommendations although her did recognize that her gross motor skill development is delayed. My questions regarding this are: Should we be concerned and seek other opinions? If so, do you have a recommendation as to whom? (i.e., help me grow, another specialist, etc.) Are there more things that we should be doing as parents to facilitate gross motor skill development?

I would recommend contacting your local early intervention provider for a physical therapy evaluation for your daughter. From your description of your daughter's motor skills, it sounds as if your daughter would definitely qualify and benefit from physical therapy services to help her continue to progress with rolling, sitting and crawling. Since she was a preemie, it is certainly fine to keep in mind that she may need an extra month or two to develop skills similar to her same age peers, however, by 9 months she should be rolling in both directions and starting to sit on her own. Continue to give your daughter as much play time as possible on her belly on the floor and encourage her to roll to secure toys that are placed just out of her reach. You can help her if her arm continues to get stuck as you mentioned. If you place her on a small blanket and tip the blanket upwards while she is on it, it will give her some extra momentum to roll. You can also place her over your lower leg, tucking her knees under her, to get her used to weight bearing on her knees and encourage her to place her hands on the floor over your leg to bear weight in this position (a skill she will need for crawling).

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You can use a boppy pillow or a pile of regular pillows around her on the floor to encourage her to practice independent sitting. Place toys to her left and right sides and not always directly in front of her to encourage her to pivot and reach for things when she is on her belly and while sitting. After each diaper change you can work on helping her into a natural sitting position by (instead of just picking her straight up) by rolling her to her side, and placing on of your hands on her hip and your other hand on her opposite shoulder and rotating her up into a sitting position. This will help her to learn to achieve a sitting position on her own, and as she gets stronger she should be placing her hand on the floor and helping push herself upwards. You can also sit her on an exercise ball and gently bounce her, tipping her gently from side to side and encouraging her to "right" her body back into midline. This may help increase her core strength needed for more complex motor skills. You can lie her on her belly on a small playground ball and roll her forward encouraging her to place her hands on the floor and then rolling her back again into her knees. Limit her time spent in bouncy seats, exer-saucers, walkers, etc. A physical therapist will be able to give you many more suggestions on how to work on her motor skills during playtime. You can consult with your local Help Me Grow program, seek out a private physical therapist through your insurance or this is a link to early intervention services in your area: Clark County Board of MR & Developmental Disabilities: Early Intervention Services 2430 Van Buren Avenue, Springfield, OH 45505-2555 Phone: (937) 328-2680.

 

My son is seven months old. He rolls over, can lift his head and seems to have pretty good control. He cannot sit by himself, but can sit supported. I am concerned because when I am holding him he won't put any weight down on his feet on my legs. I see other children younger than him bouncing up and down. He is barely pushing down on his feet. Should I be concerned?

Even though you see babies younger than your son bearing weight and bouncing, most children are able to bear weight on their feet somewhere between 7-9 months of age, so your son may just need a bit more time to complete this skill. Since he is actively rolling and lifting his head, as well as sitting with support those skills sound within normal limits. Since crawling comes before walking, you can practice skills such as placing your son over a roll made of blankets or your lower leg and work on weight bearing on his hands and knees first, gently rocking him back and forth to encourage weight shifting. Place toys to the left and right sides to encourage him to lift one arm and bear weight on the other hand. To work on weight bearing on his feet you can sit him straddling your lower leg or thigh so his feet rest flat on the floor and rock back and forth encouraging him to bear weight gently on one foot then the other, and as he gets stronger encouraging him to pull up into a standing position.

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You can also sit him on your lap facing away from you, and sing a song, as you rock him side to side and gently apply some downward pressure to his knees (make sure his bare feet are flat on the floor under his knees-he should always be placed so his body is in alignment). You could also sit him on a small ball, small enough so his feet are flat on the floor when seated and do the same exercises, supporting him at the trunk/hips as needed. I would also mention your concerns to your pediatrician at his next well baby visit. Depending on the advice of your pediatrician, if you are still concerned about his motor skills and your son is not bearing weight and starting to bounce by around 9-10 months of age you may wish to have a physical therapy evaluation through your local Early Intervention provider: http://health.state.ga.us/programs/bcw/

 

My Son is 14 months and 2 two weeks and he doesn't walk yet; he    doesn't even try can he get some help.

Let me first say that since your son is only 14 months old, he is    still well within typical development, even though he is not yet    walking by himself. You may read that babies typically walk at 12    months, but walking anywhere between 9-18 months can all be    considered within average development. You didn't mention if your son    was pulling to stand or cruising along furniture, but if he is, then    he is well on his way to independent walking.

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You may want to refer to this recent "Ask A Therapist" question (I    copied and pasted it below), which details some ways to work on    independent walking skills (http://www.earlyinterventionsupport.com/commonquestions/asktherapist-development.aspx):

My daughter is 19 month old. She is not walking independently. She    is mostly walking by kneeling down but a couple times I have seen her    take a few steps but still reluctant to walk independently; otherwise    she holds my finger and walks. Hip x-rays were taken. All seems fine    according to her pediatrician. Otherwise, her vocabulary is great.    She knows a lot of words. Her memory is also great! Please let me    know what might be the reason.

Most children walk by age 18 months, but there are still plenty of    children who are late walkers who for some reason don't begin to    fully walk independently until closer to age two. Some of these    children are knee walkers or very fast crawlers and for them it seems    like "why walk when I can get there faster this way.

Some of these children are carried a lot by caregivers. I am glad    you checked with your pediatrician first and had your daughter's hips    checked. If she is walking with one hand held, that is a good sign    that she will soon take off on her own, she may just need to gain    that extra confidence to let go of your hand. I would recommend    carrying her as little as possible when at home and encouraging her    to walk pushing toys or holding your one finger as you mentioned. You    can also have her walk behind a large ball (like an exercise ball)    pushing it across the floor. You can try little tricks like dressing    her in overalls, so that you can hang onto the back straps of the    overalls while she walks (since you'll be behind her, she won't    notice as much when you are holding on or letting go) and much like    riding a bike "let go" when you feel she has her balance so that    hopefully she will take a few steps on her own. Some parents even    attach an extra little strap to the back of the overalls so they    don't have to bend down as far while their child is practicing    walking. You can also have her stand with her back to a couch so she    has her balance and then give her a small ball or stuffed toy to hold    so that she has to use both hands to carry it and encourage her to    come show the toy to you.

I would also suggest not using walkers or exersaucers with her    right now, or if you do, limit it to very short time periods since    she needs to develop strength and balance on her own. You can play    squatting games with her to help strengthen her quadriceps muscles    which she needs for walking, have her hold your hands and squat down    and then pop back up. If you continue to have concerns and your    daughter is not progressing with independent walking within the next    month I would suggest calling your local early intervention provider    for a physical therapy evaluation to rule out that any other factors    (such as low muscle tone) are contributing to her inability to walk    on her own.

Also check out our link for Gross Motor Skill Development for ages    9-12 months, as this section would also apply to a 14 month old    child: http://www.earlyinterventionsupport.com/development/grossmotor/9-12months.aspx

If you continue to have concerns, or your son is not yet pulling    to stand, cruising along furniture or walking with both hands held,    you may want to contact your local early intervention provider for a    physical therapy evaluation. This is a local link I found for your    area: http://www.southbaymentalhealth.com/families.html

 

My granddaughter is 19 months old and does not walk. She walks    holding on with one finger but will not let go. Do you feel there can    be a problem? The doctor does not find anything wrong.

Thanks for your patience in waiting for an answer from us over the    holidays. I am glad that you first checked with your pediatrician and    that he/she feels there is nothing medically wrong with your    granddaughter. If you continue to have concerns you can always call    for a physical therapy evaluation through your local early    intervention provider. This is a link to some services in your area: http://www.bcckids.org/

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I have copied and pasted below the answer to a similar question to    yours which we just answered on our website in recent weeks (http://www.earlyinterventionsupport.com/commonquestions/asktherapist-development.aspx 3rd question/answer on the page).

Most children walk by age 18 months, but there are still plenty of    children who are late walkers who for some reason don't begin to    fully walk independently until closer to age two. Some of these    children are knee walkers or very fast crawlers and for them it seems    like "why walk when I can get there faster this way?". Some of these    children are carried a lot by caregivers. I am glad you checked with    your pediatrician first and had your daughter's hips checked. If she    is walking with one hand held, that is a good sign that she will soon    take off on her own, she may just need to gain that extra confidence    to let go of your hand. I would recommend carrying her as little as    possible when at home and encouraging her to walk pushing toys or    holding your one finger as you mentioned. You can also have her walk    behind a large ball (like an exercise ball) pushing it across the    floor. You can try little tricks like dressing her in overalls, so    that you can hang onto the back straps of the overalls while she    walks (since you'll be behind her, she won't notice as much when you    are holding on or letting go) and much like riding a bike "let go"    when you feel she has her balance so that hopefully she will take a    few steps on her own.

 

I have a few concerns about my 5 1/2-month-old daughter. She has    strong neck control and holds her head very steady. However, when on    her stomach, she won't push up hardly at all. She lifts her head, but    never uses her arms to push up. She also really doesn't try to roll    at all. If you leave her on her belly long enough, she will just lay    her arms back and lay down. Also, she won't bear any weight on her    legs when I put her feet against a hard surface (or my lap). I    remember my older daughter doing all of these things by now. Can you    tell me if I should be concerned?

Depending on where you look for a developmental milestone chart    you will see varying age levels listed for the motor skills you mentioned.    Most charts differ by a few months. Also, it's always natural to    compare when you have another child who may have completed these    motor tasks at a different pace.

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Having said that, as therapists we look for babies to be pushing    up on extended forearms on their bellies by around 5-6 months,    rolling smoothly with coordination in both directions within the 6-9    month old period (you may read that most babies are rolling in both    directions by 5 months, but many babies still do this purely by    accident and not purposely at this age), and fully bearing weight on    feet and bouncing in a standing position by around 7-9 months (many    babies are just starting to bear weight on their feet around 5 months    of age). All babies develop at their own pace. I would encourage you    to mention these concerns to your pediatrician at your next well baby    visit so he can observe your daughter. Red flags would be if you feel    your baby's muscle tone feels too floppy or too stiff, or if she    prefers one side of her body over her other (such as keeping her head    turned to one side frequently or rolling to only one side). It is    great that you are doing tummy time with her, since this is indeed    the most important time for her to develop and practice the skills    you mentioned. It sounds like she has nice head control and neck    strength, so maybe she needs to develop more trunk/core strength. You    can encourage her to play with her feet when on her back, tucking a    blanket roll under her hips to help her raise her feet and place    rattle socks on her feet to entice her. You can encourage her to push    up on extended forearms by rolling up a small blanket and placing it    under her armpits so that her chest is now lifted and it makes it a    bit easier for her to place her forearms/hands on the floor.

Lay on the floor in front of her and entice her to push upwards    with mirrors and toys to reach toward. You can also place her on her    tummy over the lower part of your leg, knees bent under her in a sort    of kneeling position so her chest rests on your leg and encourage her    to put her hands down on the floor to bear weight on them. You can    facilitate rolling during play with her, gently guiding her at the    hip and opposite shoulder or simply tip the blanket by lifting a    corner to help her get the momentum to roll over. You can let her    play in a side-lying position (left and right sides) and then    practice rolling side to back or side to tummy. You can sit her on    your lower leg, straddling your leg, and gently lift her up and down    to encourage weight bearing on her feet. Also while in a sitting    position with her feet touching the floor you can very gently apply    pressure to her knees so that her feet feel the pressure of the floor    beneath her. Since babies learn new skills almost daily during these    early months you may want to give her another month to practice.    However, if you are very concerned right now, or if your pediatrician    has concerns or if you do not see anymore progress with these skills    by 6-6.5 months I would call your local early intervention provider    to have a free physical therapy evaluation completed to rule out any    concerns. Your local early intervention provider is: Montgomery    County Infants and Toddlers Program Administrative Office 51 Monroe    Street, Suite 1700 Rockville, MD 20850 Phone: 240 777-3997 Program    Director: Ronnie Biemans http://www.montgomeryschoolsmd.org/departments/infantstoddlers/

 

My daughter is 19 month old. She is not walking independently.    She is mostly walking by kneeling down but a couple times I have seen    her take a few steps but still reluctant to walk independently;    otherwise she holds my finger and walks. Hip x-rays were taken. All    seems fine according to her pediatrician. Otherwise, her vocabulary    is great. She knows a lot of words. Her memory is also great! Please    let me know what might be the reason.

Most children walk by age 18 months, but there are still plenty of    children who are late walkers who for some reason don't begin to    fully walk independently until closer to age two. Some of these    children are knee walkers or very fast crawlers and for them it seems    like "why walk when I can get there faster this way?".

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Some of these children are carried a lot by caregivers. I am glad    you checked with your pediatrician first and had your daughter's hips    checked. If she is walking with one hand held, that is a good sign    that she will soon take off on her own, she may just need to gain    that extra confidence to let go of your hand. I would recommend    carrying her as little as possible when at home and encouraging her    to walk pushing toys or holding your one finger as you mentioned. You    can also have her walk behind a large ball (like an exercise ball)    pushing it across the floor. You can try little tricks like dressing    her in overalls, so that you can hang onto the back straps of the    overalls while she walks (since you'll be behind her, she won't    notice as much when you are holding on or letting go) and much like    riding a bike "let go" when you feel she has her balance so that    hopefully she will take a few steps on her own. Some parents even    attach an extra little strap to the back of the overalls so they    don't have to bend down as far while their child is practicing    walking. You can also have her stand with her back to a couch so she    has her balance and then give her a small ball or stuffed toy to hold    so that she has to use both hands to carry it and encourage her to    come show the toy to you.

I would also suggest not using walkers or exersaucers with her    right now, or if you do, limit it to very short time periods since    she needs to develop strength and balance on her own. You can play    squatting games with her to help strengthen her quadriceps muscles    which she needs for walking, have her hold your hands and squat down    and then pop back up. If you continue to have concerns and your    daughter is not progressing with independent walking within the next    month I would suggest calling your local early intervention provider    for a physical therapy evaluation to rule out that any other factors    (such as low muscle tone) are contributing to her inability to walk    on her own. This is a link to a provider in your area: http://www.iceckids.org/html/icechome.htm

 

My son is 12-1/2 months old, started to roll over at 7 months,    crawling well at 10 months. But he is not interested in bearing    weight or pulling to stand. He stands very well (with minimal support    on his knees) and walks with knees with pushing toys. If I make him    stand, he usually bends his knees at 90 degree and won't attempt to    stand. He was born at term. How can I make him pull up and bear    weight?

It sounds like your son may just need some extra time to get used    to weight bearing on his feet and develop more strength for standing,    especially if he only began rolling actively at 7 months and crawling    at 10 months. I would, however, check with his pediatrician first to    make sure there is no physical reason why he would refuse to bear    weight on his feet (the doctor may check his hips).

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Once this is ruled out I would practice using a therapy ball or    large playground ball that is big enough that your son can stand in    front of it at about chest height. Make a game of singing and rolling    him forward with his belly on the ball and then back onto his feet.    Row, row, row your boat is a great song for that activity. He may    even enjoy just standing beside the big ball and patting it as a    game.

Since he already enjoys kneeling and playing in this position, you    can help him to assume a 1/2 kneel position by helping him shift his    weight and bringing one foot forward, which will be the position he    eventually use to pull to stand on his own. Often you can tempt    babies to try to pull to stand by placing some of their favorite toys    just out of reach on a low table or couch...if he gets to his knees,    push the toys a bit farther out of reach and help him assume the 1/2    kneel and boost him upwards so he can reach the toys. Make a game out    of it and practice it several times a day.

You can also sit him on your leg, with one of his legs on either    side of yours and raise him up and down encouraging him to press his    feet on the floor and stand as you raise him up with support.    Bouncing in this position can help him increase the strength in his    quad muscles that he needs for walking. Do not wear shoes on him, he    needs to feel the floor under his feet to develop these skills. Since    he is already pushing toys by knee walking, he will probably soon    begin to pull himself up on his own.

All babies develop at their own pace, but generally we look for    children to walk independently by around age 15-16 months, so your    son still has plenty of time for practicing these needed skills. If    you continue to have concerns and your son is still not weight    bearing on his feet within the next month I would recommend calling    your local early intervention provider to request a physical therapy    evaluation.

 

My son just turned 11 months old. He is not crawling, pulling up,    or standing. He does roll around the floor, and tries to "bounce"    himself when on his stomach; and just recently, he does seem to be    more interested in trying to pull himself up by latching his arms    around my arm or body. He does not seem to know how to put his weight    on his hands or legs. He is a large baby, over 95% in height and over    97% in head circumference; but only about 55% in weight. Could he    just be top heavy and need more time to develop his muscles?
 
He didn't truly sit up on his own until he was 8 months old and    really only began sitting up for long periods of time and "catching"    himself from falling over at 10 months, and he is just now starting    to bend forward and lower himself onto the floor from a sitting    position; so there is some progression in his development. Another    concern is that he is very "into" and particular about his hands,    i.e. moving them slowly in front of his face (although he is doing    this less and less), doesn't like for me to touch his hands, flaps    his hands when excited or happy and still likes to lay on his back    and put his hands and feet in the air (although again, doing this    less and less).

Thanks for your question. I would advise contacting your local    early intervention provider in order to have your son evaluated by a    physical therapist as well as an occupational therapist if you    continue to have concerns regarding his gross motor development, as    well as his sensitivity related to his hands. Being a "large baby"    could contribute to some difficulty in completing motor skills, and    it sounds like he is moving along, just at a slower pace. By 11    months, hand watching behaviors should have disappeared since most    children by now are far more interested in the toys they are holding    than their hands themselves.

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I am suggesting the OT evaluation since some children have sensory    issues which could be a reason your son does not like to bear weight    on his hands and knees and does not like his hands to be touched.    Does he have any sensitivity to his hands being messy when eating or    his face being wiped, etc? Has your son ever had his vision    evaluated? I would schedule a screening with your child's doctor to    rule out any problems related to his vision which could be another    reason he is hand gazing. Vision problems can also contribute to    delayed gross motor skills. You could also ask if your local early    intervention program provides functional vision evaluations.

Having said all that, I would continue to encourage floor play as    much as possible to increase his motor skills. Limit the use of    walkers, bouncers, etc so he can practice important skills on the    floor as much as possible. Crawling is a very important developmental    milestone, and can be encouraged by placing your son over your leg on    the floor, with his knees bent and hands bearing weight in front of    him, rock him back and forth and sing simple songs to make it fun.    You can also tape some large cans together or roll up several towels    to make a roll and place him over this roll in a hand/knee position.    Gently rock him back and forth so he is encouraged to bear weight on    both hands and knees. Place a mirror in front of him and place toys    to the left and right side, encouraging him to bear weight on one    hand while reaching for a toy with his other hand. You can also use a    small playground or exercise ball and place him belly down on there    and roll him back and forth bringing him forward to his hands and    then back to his knees or feet.

Work on transitional positions, such as encouraging him to go from    laying down to sitting by rotating his body, as well as going from    sitting to hand knee. Place the roll to his left or right side    (alternate) and help him rotate over into a hand-knee position. You    can use a small box turned upside-down as a table, and place your son    in a kneeling position beside the box for play to encourage weight    bearing on his knees. Make sure his heels are under his bottom (don't    allow him to sit in a "W" position with his bottom on the floor    between his legs) and help him pull up to a tall kneeling position.    When he is able to tolerate tall kneeling, you can help him move one    leg out into a half kneel position which he will need to pull up into    standing. Sometimes furniture in the house is simply too high for    little ones to pull up on, so use boxes, breakfast trays, lap desks    etc, whatever works best for your son's height. Ideally when he pulls    to stand the object you are using for a table should be about armpit    height or a bit lower.

 

My daughter is a little over 4 months of age and can hold her head up and stays on her elbows while on her stomach. How do I encourage her to bear more weight on her arms? She just does not seem interested in going any higher than that. Is it too early to expect her to be doing this?

Since your daughter is only a little over 4 months old, it sounds as if her motor skills are within normal limits for her age if she is able to left her head and turn it from side to side, as well as bear weight on her forearms while on her tummy.

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Tummy time is the most important position for developing later motor skills. Typically between 4-5 months is when most babies do begin to push up a bit on extended arms lifting their chests off the floor. To encourage these skills lots of tummy time is important throughout your daughter's waking hours. You can roll up a small towel or receiving blanket under your daughter's armpits to raise her up a bit and encourage the weight bearing on her extended arms that you are looking for. You can also use a small soft wedge of foam for this same effect.

Always supervise tummy time play for young infants. Get down on your baby's level on the floor and face her so that she has the extra motivation to raise her head and look around and push upwards. You can also use a mirror & raise it up in front of her to encourage her to lift her head and chest. When using toys as a motivator, don't always put them directly in front of her, but to each side as well, moving toys farther away or holding them up higher to the left, right and center so she must look up to catch sight of them. Placing toys to the side encourages a baby to shift her weight and enhances her range of motion. To strengthen her neck, back and trunk muscles you can also carry her belly down in a sort of "football hold" by sliding your hand between her legs and under her tummy, you can support her head and neck with your other hand if needed and carry her close to your body for support.

Lying on your back with your baby on your stomach is another nice way to do tummy time without really thinking about it, she will want to look up to see your face as you talk/sing to her. You can also lie on your back with your knees bent, feet on floor and place your baby on your knees/lower legs facing you...hold her hands and encourage her to look up at you in this position. Daily tummy time is the best way to continue to strengthen all the muscles she will need for later more complex motor skills. If your daughter does not begin to bear weight on her hands and push up by 6 months you may want to seek a physical therapy evaluation through your local early intervention provider.

 

My almost-11-month-old son still crawls with his belly on the floor. He can get up on all fours when he is still, but doesn't move forward or backward in that position. Also, though he can sit perfectly without support, he has not yet figured out how to get himself into a sitting position. He is able to pull to standing on his own and can get anywhere he wishes in a room. Are crawling on hands and knees, tummy off the floor, and getting himself to sit major milestones he is missing? Or is it okay at this point?

It sounds as though your son has accomplished some very nice gross motor skills. I wouldn't panic at all. What I would do, though, is continue to put him on the floor on his belly and encourage him to get up on all fours.

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Once he is on all fours, I would use a toy that motivates him and encourage him to move toward it. Also, each time you change his diaper, roll him to his side and encourage him to push himself up into the sitting position. Try hard not to put him on the floor to play in a sitting position; instead, put him on his belly or back so he has to either work on crawling or getting to sit on his own. If you do these few things, he should accomplish moving to sit and crawling in no time. If he still doesn't seem to be gaining these skills, you can always discuss your concerns with your pediatrician.

 

My 10 1/2 month old son almost always stands on his tip-toes. He can not stand without support yet but when we hold him in a standing position or when he is in his exersaucer, he is on his toes. I have tried to manipulate his feet to a flat position but he rarely does it or only stands flat for a few seconds. Should I be concerned?

While it's not entirely uncommon for kids to be on their toes when first standing and walking it can interfere with balance and make it difficult to stand on their own and take steps. First off I would recommend limiting time in the exersaucer for only those times when you need him to be in a safe place such as when you are cooking, etc. If you have a pack and play that may be a better option instead of the exersaucer as he can still play in standing and also has the opportunity to cruise and move around some while contained.

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If you choose to keep the exersaucer adjust it so that his feet can be flat. Often kids will stand or jump on their toes when in exersaucers causing their calf muscles to get tight and making it hard for them to stand on flat feet. Without seeing your child I can not be sure exactly why he is standing on his toes but I would suspect tight calves.

You can stretch his calf muscles by laying or sitting him on the floor or in your lap using toys to distract him-hold his knee straight with one hand and with the other bring "toes to nose." Stop and hold when you feel resistance. Try to hold at least 10 seconds, but if he tolerates it you can hold longer. Do not bounce his foot or push into the resistance. Be sure to keep his knee straight. Repeat (as tolerated) at least 3-5 times per foot and try to do this several times per day such as after diaper changes. After bath is also a great time to stretch as the warm water will help to loosen the muscles. Continue to reposition his feet so that they are flat when he is playing in standing. If the above suggestions do not seem to make an improvement in the next couple weeks then I would recommend looking into early intervention services in your area to get a physical therapy evaluation.

 

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