Child Development: Feeding Skills

 

Developmental Delay Red Flags
for Feeding BabiesRed Flag

Our section on 'feeding skills' is here as a guide for you. Look for developmental milestones when feeding your child.

Red flagAs you review each Feeding Skills section by Age Group, look for this flag. If you are concerned that your child is not engaging in age-appropriate feeding behaviors and reaching developmental milestones, speak with your pediatrician.

 

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Feeding Skills for
Infants, Toddlers, and Children

 

Is My Baby's Feeding Development Typical?

Young boy with glass of milkSuccessful baby feeding requires appropriate motor development throughout the body and mouth, good sensory integration techniques, healthy routines, and most of all an enjoyment of the experience!

Eating is a huge part of our lives. When it does not work as you expect or is a stressful event - tension inevitably develops.

Feeding Concerns

Developing feeding skills are crucial for a host of reasons including basic survival, social interaction, exploration, and communication.
There is nothing more troubling to a parent than a child not eating and/or growing.

Feeding concerns arise from a variety of mild to severe causes. The earlier your child's concerns are addressed and recognized, the more likely secondary problems, such as behavioral and relationship problems, can be avoided.

Failure to Thrive

A study of 160 Failure to Thrive (FTT) infants in Montreal with an average age of 8.8 months, concluded the average age of onset of feeding problems was 3.1 months and the average referral time by pediatricians for help was 19.2 months (1999 Ramsay).

There are a number of professionals who may offer support and recommendations, including but not limited to, speech therapists, occupational therapists, nutritionist/dietician, psychologists, and physicians.

It is always best to start with your child's pediatrician. Report specific concerns you may have related to your child's food intake, behaviors, and discomfort observed during and following mealtime. The pediatrician has been monitoring your child's growth (height, weight, head circumference) and will be able to assess the progression curve of growth. There are a variety of 'normal' growth patterns. Consistent growth is a key factor. Linear growth (height) is the best measure of long term nutrition. In general, babies should triple birth weight by 12 months and increase length by 50% (2002 Tarbell).

You know your child best. Have your specific concerns addressed as soon as possible for your child's well being. Keep a journal, one week or more, of what foods your child is eating and how much. You may want to include any of the following when discussing your concerns:

  • Avoidance responses to specific foods and textures (gag response, vomiting, blocking spoon with hands or closed lips, verbal protests, pushing food away, and other avoidance responses)
  • Abnormal bowel movements (constipation, diarrhea, loose stool) and frequency
  • Skin reactions (dry patches, hives, rashes)
  • Coughing throughout meal
  • Discomfort (crying, arching back, irritability, retching)

Consider a Mealtime Video

Messy baby eatingIt is difficult for a pediatrician to observe meal related behaviors during a 5 or 10 minute office visit. Therefore a brief video at meal time with your child demonstrating undesired behaviors can be great tool to support your concerns.

Your pediatrician can recommend/prescribe an evaluation from a therapist or clinic specializing in feeding problems. It is best to seek out help as early as possible. Some feeding concerns may be minor and resolved quickly. However, other concerns may disrupt family meal routines and daily functioning, or be severe enough to impair your child's health.

Feeding Skills by Age Group

The following are feeding skills developmental stages, defining expected feeding behaviors and postures in each age range.  Included are 'red flags' to warn of particular developmental delays you should look out for.

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Early Intervention Helps with Developmental Delay

For children with Special Needs, intervention in early childhood development means finding specific ways to help a child become as functional as possible.

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